PERSONAL BREAKTHROUGH SESSION
Personal Breakthrough Session - How do I know that I need one?
Life Coach is much like a sports coach. A sports coach has the job of coaching a team to perform to their full potential. I see my job as helping you to access the resources within yourself to create the behaviour that will result in life that you want for yourself.
Let me answer this question by first stating that you already have within you what you need to create the life you want. If you dont believe this or you cannot see it, then I would suggest that its time to get some outside help. If you do believe that you already have what it takes, but you dont have the results you want, even though you have applied yourself and tried to change your thinking and behaviour to support the results you desire, then a good life coach will be of great help to you.
If any of the statements listed below describe you, then my private life coaching program, PERSONAL BREAKTHROUGH SESSION, is a definite solution for you.
- My life is not what I would want it to be...
- I have a phobia...
- I have emotional issues...
- I have no control over my emotions
- I am an angry person
- I have low self esteem...
- I make self limiting decisions...
- I have limiting beliefs
- I cant move forward because of my past...
- I want to do better at my job
- I am stuck
- I dont know how to love....
- I cant make decisions
- I cant stop feeling guilty...
- I never have enough money / I want more money...
- Other people are always hurting / destroying me...
- I keep making the same mistakes
- My relationships never work out...
- I am unhappy even though things are seemingly fine when I think about it
- I have too much stress
As your life coach I will teach you how to understand and take control of your inner world. Don't ask me how they measure this, but I am told that 97% of our behaviour occurs without us consciously thinking about it. That means that we only consciously consider 3% of our behaviour. That explains why, inspite of all our effort, we dont always get the results we want.
My Life Coaching program is about gaining control of that 93% of your behaiour that currently runs on autopilot. I know that it is possible for you to take control of your life. What you do right now is determining the results in your life anyway, even if you dont feel in control. Why not learn how to consciously take control, so that you can get the results that you want instead?
Below is very simplified model of how we create results in our lives. Our actions produce our results. Our thinking causes our actions and our conditioned minds are responsible for our thinking. You're most likely reading this page because you have tried to change your actions and your thinking and you are not succeeding yet. Lasting change occurs in the conditioned mind. What goes on in your conditioned mind determines what you get to think about. That is why changing your thinking and actions without engaging the conditioned mind is very difficult and often a long and painful process. You will engage with your conditioned mind, probably for the first time in your life, during my life coaching program. |

Dear Peter, Before my Life Coaching session, I was tired, I was emotionally drained with no zest for life. I was merely going through the motions at work, no focus & my competitive edge was barely existent! My family life felt like it was closing in on me & I felt constricted. In the space of 1year, I had lost my mother & also just had a car accident, situations were not helping at all. As a rep, I’m out on the road most of the day, meeting people and driving, which had become another nightmare, the mere thought of driving, made me anxious & gave me heart palpitations.
Peter you have not only given me an enormous amount of energy, you have helped me realize, that through looking at small situations differently & realizing your role in it & simply changing it, none of the former stresses I had was actually relevant in my life. I have a renewed sense of focus, of drive, I am excited ALL THE TIME!!! Things I thought I could never dispose of so easily, are all gone, RESOLVED for GOOD! I am happy to be at work, and genuinely feel good about life as a whole. Just yesterday, I told you about my driving issues, after the session, I was excited to get on the road & just DRIVE! While driving, I was calm, cautious & even chatted with my passenger, where before, I would be frozen, tensed up & silent, constantly thinking about being in another accident, but not anymore!!!
I even smiled while I was driving! In fact, I’m smiling all the time!!!
You have helped me set attainable goals & objectives for 2009. I now know that absolutely ANYTHING is possible, I just have to do it! With the right mindset, only positive things can be achieved. I’ve even started a new relationship with someone supportive of my hobbies, goals & objectives. And I can say with confidence that 2009 will be a spectacular year!
Thanks, Peter, from the bottom of my heart!!!
Janine Cupido |
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Life Coaching has never been this effective. My Life Coaching Program is 100% scientific and practical. I guarantee my results and have a 100% track record. Yet my Life Coaching Program is not for everyone. I choose my clients, not because of arrogance, but because I want clients that are as committed to getting the results as I am. I am merely the facilitator of your transformation. However, you are the one that creates change within yourself. Without your full committment to the coaching process we will not get the desired results and that is not an option that exists in my world.
I am aware that I making bold claims and making heavy demands right from the onset. I do this only because I care and because I truly want what is best for you you.
As your life coach I commit to:
- Respect your model of the world regardless of my beliefs.
- Focus on the results that you want, not the results that anyone else thinks you should have
- Only assist in objectives that increase your choice (We will discuss this in depth at the info session)
- Only assist in objectives that are ecological. In other words, I will only assist with objectives that are good for you and your environment.
My program is essentially made up of 4 steps
1. Education of Self
Racing drivers can control their vehicles much better the average person, right? That is because they have a much better understanding of the vehicles real capabilities and limitations . They also have a greater understanding of how to instruct a vehicle and are therefore able to get significantly more performance from a vehicle. You will learn how your internal model of communication works. In other words, you will learn why you perceive the world the way you do. I will also teach you how to give yourself proper instruction resulting in greater performance.
2. Dealing with the Past
The reality is that no matter how aware you are of your potential and your abilities or how well you can instruct yourself, your past will cause you to feel like those choices are not real options. If you are going to empowered to always be at choice then your past needs to lose its foothold over you. What exactly does this mean?
We all have baggage that we have accumulated until now. In other words, we all have anger, sadness, fear, guilt and hurt that we carry with us every day from the past. You either gain wisdom or baggage from any event that has happened. The part of my life coaching program is really precious, as you will learn to free yourself from your baggage. |
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3. Now Strategies
Having dealt with the past you are now equipped to look at the now through new eyes. Only now can you make the necessary changes in your mind that will cause your behavior, and therefore your results, to change. This step of the process is about re allingning your inner world to congruently work as one, supportung your dreams and goals.
e will not get the desired results and that is not an option that exists in my world.
I am aware that I making bold claims and making heavy demands right from the onset. I do this only because I care and because I truly want what is best for you you. |
4. Creating the Future
Facing the future, baggage free and with the necessary tools, is now very exciting. We will place your new goals into your future using techniques that will make these goals so compelling that everything you do from then onwards would be yet another step closer to achieving your dreams. Have you ever set goals and not achieved them. You will learn why, but more importantly you will learn how to set goals so that you will achieve them.
Unlike most coaching programs out there, my program is designed to eliminate the need for my services as quickly as possible. I guarantee results and am totally focused on empowering you to take charge of your life without needing to depend on me in any way moving forward. My Life Coaching Program is very simple. I facilitate instant change equipping you to go create the life you want.
"Dear Robert,
I never used to think before about my life. Life, or
rather time, that was passing was something that was
meant to be, without me interfering with it. My dreams,
desires or goals were things that could come trough,
with a bit of a luck, or not, and I never thought that I
could be directly responsible for them.
The only thing that I was aware of was that meanwhile,
somehow, I’ve lost myself.
It felt so bad, to be lost, with no dreams, with no
desires, with just enough strength to face a new day
because of the responsibilities witch were waiting for
me. I was wandering aimlessly through my life, lacking a
real purpose.
Then You told me that my outer world
reflects the state of my inner world. You said that I could control my destiny… I always thought
that destiny is unfolding according to the choices one
makes, and I felt that learning from you was the best
choice I could make, that my life would never be the
same, and that something marvellous was about to happen
to me. What a journey that was! It was an amazing
awakening.
I now understand that what lies behind me and what lies
in front of me is nothing compared to what lies within
me. Thank you Robert, for being my guide, thank you for
reviling myself to me, thank you for showing me how
unique and special each and every one of us is."
Aleksandra, Johannesburg |
BECOMING OUR CLIENT
STEP 1 - Download the pre study - This is part of the process of self discovery
Even if you do not become my client, you will find the prestudy very helpful as it is bound to get you excited about the possibilities within you. I don’t cover the pre study material again during the actual sessions. What we do face to face is 100% the “how to” of that theory and so much more. Our face to face time is completely focused on the nuts and bolts of creating the life you want. Get in touch when you have completed the reading. So we can move onto step 2 where you will learn what we cover in the face to face sessions.
STEP 2 - Call me to schedule an info session
We will need about an hour and there is no cost attached to this meeting. During this meeting I will share the practical details of what my program is about as well as how we will achieve and measure our results. I cover the methodology, approach and reasoning behind my entire program. This is also your opportunity to ask questions and clarify any queries or concerns you might have. If because of logistics the info session is not possible I will forward you the info by email and we can communicate by phone until we meet for the program. At this point we also discuss the finance and any other queries.
STEP 3 - Schedule our time together
Once we have agreed on working together, I require you to complete my client disclosure and commitment agreement. We will then schedule our time together.
Life Coaching Program Logistics
- The entire life coaching program takes approximately 12 – 16 hours
- 3 sessions of 4 hours each will be scheduled scheduled before we commence
My Life Coaching Program is designed to give you the “kick start” and complete toolkit you need to go out from here and create the life you want. All sessions are one on one and scheduled based on both our diaries at the time of scheduling. We meet at my office in Bryanston. It serves the purpose well as there are no distractions and good security. I prefer to work during office hours as I enjoy my evenings with my family but have at times run my program after hours because of client constraints.
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- - -TESTIMONIALS - - -
I'm feeling AMAZING, I'm on
a natural high!
I woke up this morning bursting with energy, I have
not felt this in years. I NOW have direction in my
life and I know great things are going to happen.
Thank you for sharing this wonderful gift with me!
Angela, Pretoria, South Africa
You left this positive
shaky feeling inside of me. I feel like screaming,
but don't want to disturb the neighbors.
Is it silly to tell you how much I love you, for
everything that you gave me as a gift? Now, I would
pay you hundreds times more that what you charge for
this. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Alexandra, Johannesburg, South Africa
Thank you - you are a gift to us all. And,
my inner self-doubt and fear of failure have
actually disappeared. This is truly amazing!
Steve, Phoenix, USA
I began suddenly getting loads of new business out
of nowhere! I pulled in more cash than in last 3
months combined!
It's almost like magic! Thank you!
Christina Delores, Personal Trainer, Nevada
Hello,
I have been thinking about sending you another
email, and now am in a good place to position it
well.
I was talking to my husband about you, and the one
thing that I was trying to get across to him is what
I sense from you in so many ways, that you are free
in the truest sense of the word.
The fact that you open your home to people like me
and help others improve every aspect of their lives,
is testimony to this freedom.
You are a good person in the truest sense of the
word and we are all lucky as your clients to have
met you.
Kindest regards,
Bongiwe Nzimande, Johannesburg, South Africa
...Having been in an abusive relationship, I’ve
been carrying a lot of emotional baggage. The
nightmare lasted for four years but HAD I been
strong enough I would have ended it within the first
six months.
The reason I stayed was because of all the emotional
blackmail and threats of committing suicide, I lived
in constant fear of what he might do to me or to
himself. In those four years I went through constant
verbal, emotional, mental and physical abuse. It was
a true miracle when we finally ended the
relationship, but the months to follow were still
hard as he kept calling and threatening me.
Now five years down the line he still calls out of
the blue to say that he is sorry and that he loves
me. Hearing his voice immediately gets me into a
state of panic and all the negative emotions come
flooding back to me. I would stay upset for days
having flashbacks of all he put me though.
After having spoken to you and having done timeline
therapy I felt a sense of relief but was never a
100% sure that I had let go of the past. No test
could have been better than today when Ashley phoned
me out of the blue. At first I panicked when I heard
his voice, but within seconds I went into a state of
calmness and nothing he said could upset me. Within
an hour I had even forgotten he had called.
IT WORKED, THANK YOU! :)
Andy, Pretoria, South Africa
Hi,
People need to know about you and what you can do
for them. Take this email as a testimonial of some
sort, and if it helps few people deciding to see you
– than great!
Talk about instant gratification.
2 weeks ago I was struggling with what we call
‘emotional baggage’.
I had severe confidence issues, paranoia and
insecurities.
For example, I’d go out for a night of partying with
friends... have an amazing time... and spend the
remainder of my weekend/week panicking, stressing,
worrying about the entire event. What I said, what
he/she said. What they meant by it. Were they
offended?
The slightest emotional event ... an upper or a
downer (i.e. watching a sad movie, christenings in
church) would have me crying. And not just cry,
sobbing. I always wrote this down to a somewhat
traumatic life journey (like I said... emotional
baggage).
Mix these emotional ingredients together (extreme
paranoia, stress and sadness) - and you get one
mixed up person.
So ... what changed? I met with Robert.
He asked me if I could just imagine a life without
these limitations where I could achieve and be
anything and everything I want.
‘Imagine’, he said... ‘instant gratification’.
Instant? I imagined that burden lifting from my
life, and I wanted, craved the freedom.
At first I didn’t believe it, but after my initial
talk with Robert... I had a pretty good week. I felt
more confident, I made progress on my one task.
Where I had left the previous Friday, feeling
despondent, depressed and doubtful, I now conquered
my fear. Asked questions, learnt – and I ended up
completing more than 75% of my required outcome.
Something changed. I knew it was Robert... he had
said something to me by just talking to me. I knew
it. So I decided to find out what life could be like
without the unwarranted stress, paranoia and fear.
How life could be if I just believed in myself
again.
2 weeks seems like such a short time. But in this
time, I have learnt better and performed better at
my job than ever. I actually dared to ask a question
at work, something I always feared of. I would spam
my mind with ideas that my boss will realize how
stupid I was, and not competent enough for this job.
Instead, I dared to present my problem, he loved my
attitude, offered to pay for the course which I
needed, and he promised a raise when I am done, as
I’ll be more valuable to the company from there on!
What a change this is for me, I ended up with a
raise!!!
But the simplest and foolproof experience that I can
use to emphasise this experience – was my day today.
I spent 2 hours with Robert last night, and we
targeted my limiting belief that I was not a morning
person. We specifically worked on getting up as soon
as my alarm went off. Instead of just snoozing and
snoozing until it’s too late.
This morning, my alarm went off at 5:30. I got up. I
was instantly awake, and I went to the gym for 2
hours.
If you knew me at all – I wish you could just phone
my husband – this would have been and impossible,
unthinkable, unimaginable task for me in the past
few years.
I guess you could say that the emotional experience
happened on the same level metaphorically.
I used to struggle to get up in life. I just
couldn’t get that break, understand everything (I
was asleep in life) - I put off my dreams for the
rat race (snoozed), until it was too late... Robert
made me get up!!
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Robert!!!
Melanie, Midrand, South Africa
Just wanted to let you know that I had to give a
demo this morning for two sites with MC… so its not
a large group of people I need to talk to.
But I have also never done a demo before in my
life….. Now in the old situation I would have been a
mess and shaking… stuttering, losing my place etc.
It would also have felt like I was shouting at
everyone, when instead they all think I’m
whispering.
HOWEVER, today was completely different, I was calm,
cool and collected (Specially after having another
nights undisturbed beauty sleep). So what if I had
never done a demo before… just wing it. It’s nothing
different, just like explaining how a site works to
someone who is a little slow at computers – just
talk and click….
I know this is a small thing as some may say, but to
me it was a mountain that I overcame thanks to your
help…. Again thank you and thank you !!!!
Really this has made a huge difference in my life. I
create a wonderful life for myself, and all thanks
to you. Hope you have a fantastic day….
Regards,
Angel, Pretoria, South Africa
I’ve been thinking a LOT since I got home. I
realized that it’s okay for me to be me. That I
don’t have to protect and hide myself anymore, I CAN
BE ME! I think that nailed it for me.
I can’t begin to explain to you what effect this had
on me. My whole body was tingling; it was as if wave
after wave of goosebumps hit me. I mean, the exact
thing we talked about of me being trapped inside,
not feeling as though I’m projecting ME to the
world, is now GONE! I truly think that having faith
in myself and realizing it’s okay to be ME, will
bring my weight and body into alignment too.
I can’t begin to describe to you what I feel like
this morning. It feels like I’m on a journey, and an
exciting one at that. You know these movie scenes
where there’s a girl in a field full of grass and
flowers twirling around with happiness because she’s
in love. Well, that’s how I’m feeling, like twirling
round and round with happiness! (never imagined one
could just be this happy without being in love)
I’m on an amazing road of discovery, discovering
myself most of all. I can’t begin to thank you
enough for facilitating this process!
Nelly, Pretoria, South Africa
I never used to think before about my life. Life, or
rather time, that was passing was something that was
meant to be, without me interfering with it. My
dreams, desires or goals were things that could come
trough, with a bit of a luck, or not, and I never
thought that I could be directly responsible for
them.
The only thing that I was aware of was that
meanwhile, somehow, I’ve lost myself.
It felt so bad, to be lost, with no dreams, with no
desires, with just enough strength to face a new day
because of the responsibilities which were waiting
for me. I was wandering aimlessly through my life,
lacking a real purpose.
Then You told me that my outer world reflects the
state of my inner world. You said that I could
control my destiny… I always thought that destiny is
unfolding according to the choices one makes, and I
felt that learning from you was the best choice I
could make, that my life would never be the same,
and that something marvelous was about to happen to
me. What a journey that was! It was an amazing
awakening.
I now understand that what lies behind me and what
lies in front of me is nothing compared to what lies
within me. Thank you Robert, for being my guide,
thank you for reviling myself to me, thank you for
showing me how unique and special each and every one
of us is.
Aleksandra, Luxembourg
I slept like a stone last night! My cousin tells me
that we had a thunder storm during the night and
that they couldn't sleep because of the storm. But I
didn't hear a thing… Must have been my tired brain…
Must say I feel great today. There is a different
motivation when I got up this morning to work. Now
it's not just to get up and get the work done, it's
get up and do the work so that I can win and move to
a new level. So it's great, thank you!
I feel different altogether. My body and my mind
seem to be in alignment with my future goals. I
never had this kind of a focus and concentration.
When I look into the future now, I can see clearly
the goals that we set, and I am sooo certain of
their outcome. As far as my mind is concerned, they
happened already and the way I wanted them to
happen. Certainty is something I never had before,
not at this level!
I feel like a winner, fear is gone, and my thoughts
are pure. No more procrastination, I am free of all
limitations. And all this thanks to you! I’ll tell
all my friends about you and the work that you do,
this is just priceless!!!
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!
I’ll keep you updated…
Cheers
Michael, Centurion, South Africa
This is a note to let you know how grateful I am to
have you as a new friend, coach and inspiration in
life.
You truly are a gift to the world we live in!
Through you and your teachings you are positively
changing peoples lives, which in turn raises global
consciousness.
You have freed my mind of the past, freed my mind of
future uncertainties and I now see every challenge
as an opportunity to learn and grow.
You have given me the power to love and believe in
myself again as well as the confidence in knowing
that I can achieve anything I put my mind to.
Thank you for helping me be the best me I can be!
Your friend for life
Cathy, Centurion, South Africa
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